Good News! I think the jetlag is gone! We are sleeping like normal people (besides waking to roll over on the hard, horrible bed) but now my allergies are killing me and I think I have a sinus infection. Blah. The weather has still been nice here. It’s not rained any day except a few sprinkles today and mild 60 low 70 temps with a decent breeze. We have no internet or TV at our new home so we’ve been checking DVD movies and DVD seasons of our favorite TV show out of the library to watch on our computers after dinner (P.s. Military families- library is good place to go too when you are bored but they have to register you the first time you go there. Just go to the front desk and tell them you are new and give them your ID card. They have WI-FI & computers. Then you can check out for free books, DVD movies, TV series DVDs, electronic games, audio books, etc). It’s amazing how much we rely on things like television and internet to entertain us or practically run our lives. It’s only day 5 but I’d say I’m doing pretty good through it. During my time at home I’ve been practicing my Italian, clipped & groomed my ridiculously long toe nails that I’ve been neglecting, playing with Amber on her puzzles and coloring books, reading her books, cooking and eating and watching a DVD on the computer before bed. Only 13 more days or so! I can DO THIS!!
Another bit of good news, while on the bus on the way home Tuesday we rode through the car delivery place and saw our car! Yay! It’s here!! Jonathan called them when we got home & left to go see if he could get it that day. Like we figured since neither of us have our Italian drivers license yet we couldn’t get the car until Friday when Jonathan took his drivers test. Even though we got our international drivers license before we left the states we still need a Military one to be able to drive in Italy for the next 36 months. If you plan on renting a car when you come visit Europe make sure to get your international drivers license. It’s like $35 and can be obtained at Triple A (AAA) or look it up online. Pretty sure it’s only good for a year though so don’t get it too early.
Ok back to the house details. . . I’m posting pictures on FB of the place. Of course it’s bare right now bc we don’t have any of our stuff and only loaner furniture but it’s nice and pretty spacious. Our unaccompanied baggage came Wednesday which included just some bare essentials and our GRILL!! Cooking has been different since we moved in. Everyone here uses gas for their stove so that’s kind of scary with an open flame and a 4 years old acting crazy around the kitchen sometimes. We don’t have a microwave so any leftovers have to be heated on the stove top or in the oven. Jonathan and I wanted some popcorn last night so we opened a bag of microwave stuff and dumped it in a cooking pot with some butter, put on the lid and shook it lightly over the stove flame until it started popping! About 85% of the kernels popped. It got a little dark but not burnt, and it wasn’t as fluffy as microwave popcorn but it hit the spot! We are kicking ourselves now bc we decided not to bring our microwave but the Villaggio (our house) has American outlets and Italian outlets so it would have worked here L Oh well.
The people in our housing complex are very nice so far. We’ve been waiting at the bus stop numerous times and other residents with cars have offered us rides to post and from post to home. Everyone is helpful with loading and unloading on the bus too. People with lots of bags or children are helped with out hesitation here. A lady I had just met and was speaking with at the bus stop had trouble folding her stroller as the bus was arriving so she asked me to hold her baby while she figured it out. I ended up boarding the bus with her child and Amber and held the kid half the bus ride before the lady was like ‘oh, here I’ll take her back now’. I’m glad I look trustworthy enough to hold a strangers child having only known them for like 2 minutes! Lol.
I guess it’s just the atmosphere that makes people so trusting. The crime is very low here. I have walked off post many times for miles through tunnels and ally ways just me and Amber and I’ve always felt safe (I’m still aware of my surroundings don’t get me wrong). Jonathan told me there is no concealed carry, weapon registration, or any other type of permission for residents or visitors to have a weapon in Italy so I guess unless they are doing it illegally no one here has a gun on them. The police are obviously allowed to have guns but they drive little European cars that resemble something like a Geo Metro with a bigger back seat. On the driving test it says a police man may pull you over by sticking a red sign out the window versus the sirens and lights. I think this is because of the noise ordinances in some parts of town. Jonathan also told me that he learned that fighting is an ‘eye for an eye’ type thing. The main crime in Italy is burglary/theft and with guns or weapons outlawed here there’s not much for the burglars to be scared of until the police arrive. Cars get broken into often so make sure you lock your valuables where they can’t been seen or don’t keep them in your car. If a man were to slap him all Jonathan could do is slap the guy back or he would be in serious trouble. If someone breaks into your house you can not assault or fight them to get them out of your house. All you can do is close the door and block it with your body but you are not allowed to lock it and you must call the police and tell them you are putting someone under Citizen’s arrest. If they assault you trying to leave then you can assault them in the same fashion but nothing more. I heard if your car door is left unlocked, expect to find your car ransacked when you return. Another regular occurrence is car accidents. People have told me about having parked somewhere and came back to find their car had been hit with no note or anything. Also a lady said she walked out of a store and saw a man back into her car 3 times trying to parallel park and he just got out of his car and walked into the store like nothing happened! It’s normal to see a car with marks or dents like it’s been side swiped here. The roads, like I explained before, are really tiny, there are crazy traffic circles, and there are minimal shoulders. It’s just the road then a concrete barrier or fencing. I’m kind of convincing myself maybe I want to be a bus rider instead of a driver every time I think about the roads here!